Before the winter break my room mate, Anthony, left a note in my cereal box:
Posted: January 25, 2012 Filed under: Photography, A Day in the Life of Common Strangers | Tags: love, Rudy, Pete, brotherhood, friendship, college, seventyseven, strangers, marc, Anthony Petrella, Pierre, room mate, white, black, bros 1 Comment »Pete, We were supposed to go driving today… It has been snowing since 2:30 AM. Tho
ugh beautiful, even I would not drive today.
By the way it’s about 7:15 AM.
I spent my night in the kitchen watching the snowfall. I feel at peace here, alone with the ovens on and their doors open for heat. It’s so toasty. The sun is rising… cannot see it though… the sky is turning a pretty pink. It was beautiful transition, though… the snow I mean. At first… it didn’t stick… just covered the limp green in a hypothermic frost…man… I would hate to be the grass… then, the green turned to white. It was slow at first … but it caught on very quickly… then the roads… cars… buildings, until everything was white… Is White. Perfection.
The best part… footprints. Watching people walk to campus… leaving harsh black imperfections in the snow… only to see them covered with the forgiving and patient white snow. It’s as if… the endothermic reaction that occurred upon compression failed to blush the reputation of winters; a soft handed realization to an unyielding life. I hope to someday share such a transition with you.
All is white except the ground under the post… orange form the light above. One can sense the jealousy that quivers between the filament to filament; time-and-a-half pay to disrupt the process.
“Just stop trying. You’re embarrassing yourself… stop! PLEASE!”
But, boy… is it pretty. Street lamps turn off…one… by one…by one.
Lights, camera…action! Friday has begun.
I want you to take one thing home with you this holiday.
Can you do that? A piece of knowledge if you will.
You’re an inspiration and it’s an honor to know you. Just promise me one thing…
Promise me… you’ll never let the snow cover you up.
With more love than this world can count on,
Anthony Petrella.
P.S: You know they say that the people who stay friends forever meet in college?
You and me kiddo.
Revealing Strangers: The Editor
Posted: May 15, 2011 Filed under: Editorial | Tags: colon, dante, editor, hitler, lida, lida colon, marc, mein kampf, Pete, Revealing Strangers, revealingstrangers, strangers, writers Leave a comment »They say behind every good man is a good woman. But you rarely hear behind every good writer, is a great editor. My good friend Lida Colon, whom I refer to as The Editor, has been the woman behind the scenes fine-tuning my post and my essays for English class. She literally walked me through my 8-page paper on the Old Spice Guy discussing the relationship between the media and the ideal stereotypes for men and women–-nothing interesting my friends. I must say. She takes a burden off this Stranger’s shoulders when it comes to placing those commas and semi-colons.
I met Lida thorough a former Revealing Stranger and brother Chuck. She called me about seven in the morning on a weekend, and began rambling about how she loves the English language and loves what Seventy Seven Strangers is about. When I got to know Lida I realized she was no ordinary person. While some girls are out picking for pumps, Lida rather picks for books at Starbucks. While some may be reading the latest “Black Interest:” book you can find Lida’s eyes fastened to Hitler’s Mein Kampf. Once we decided to hang out, we spent an hour in The Strand, looking through every book just because it felt like home to her. It was only then I realize she would be the perfect person for Rudy and I to ask for a helping hand now and then.
Lida remains a good friend of mine, one who is always ready to help me and listen to my dilemmas. I think it’s safe to say there is no writer and editor relationship like the one we have. Lida often makes jokes about my writing a book. She says to make sure I dedicate a whole section to her. Count on it sister. I can guarantee you folks, as Seventy Seven tries to assemble a team of friends, you can chalk Lida up as a Stranger.

